Embracing Erotica: Using OnlyFans as a Vehicle for Change
“OnlyFans is a place for me to embrace eroticism, connect with my community, and make money to change the world!”
Over the past decade, I’ve been on a multifaceted journey to achieve financial independence while building a life that allows me to focus on my passions. My work, both as a stripper and now as an adult content creator on platforms like OnlyFans, has been a practical way to achieve my goals, providing the financial stability needed to invest in projects I care deeply about.
Fan art of Tiyana dancing, by Michael Lombardi
A Means to an End: My Journey from Stripping to OnlyFans and Beyond
For me, this work is not a lifestyle or an identity; it’s a job—one that requires skill, strategy, and discipline. It’s a professional choice that aligns with my desire to manage my own time, earn a sustainable income, and allocate resources toward initiatives that matter to me. Just as someone might pursue consulting, freelancing, or entrepreneurship, I’ve chosen a path that offers flexibility and the potential for significant earnings without being confined to a traditional 9-to-5 structure.
Breaking Stereotypes and Owning the Narrative
The decision to create adult content came after years of working in the stripping industry, which taught me valuable lessons about resilience, self-presentation, and emotional intelligence. It also showed me the societal double standards that exist around this kind of work. By transitioning to online content creation, I’ve been able to further control my environment and scale my income, all while maintaining personal boundaries.
This isn’t a decision I made lightly, nor is it something I see as permanent. It’s a strategic move in a long-term plan. Platforms like OnlyFans allow creators to monetise their labour directly, with greater autonomy and safety compared to traditional forms of adult entertainment. In an increasingly digital world, this model offers an avenue for financial security that can be empowering when approached with clarity and purpose.
Funding Passions and Pursuing Impact
What makes this work worthwhile for me is the freedom it provides to pursue my passions. My income supports my impact projects, particularly in areas that align with my values—empowerment, sustainability, and community development. For example, as the founder of the Humanitarian Changemakers Network, I channel resources into fostering social innovation and engaging young Australians in transformative social change.
Additionally, this financial independence allows me to focus on my doctoral research and other academic pursuits without the constant worry of economic constraints. Balancing these roles requires careful time management and a clear understanding of my priorities, but the reward is being able to work on what truly matters to me.
Reframing the Narrative
For many, adult content creation remains a misunderstood industry, often judged through a narrow lens. I hope my story contributes to reframing the narrative, showing that this work can be a legitimate, ethical, and empowering way to achieve financial independence. It’s not about glamour or indulgence; it’s about pragmatism and choice.
Ultimately, my goal is to create a life that’s purpose-driven and values-aligned. This work is simply a means to an end—a stepping stone on a path that leads to broader opportunities for impact. While the work I do may not be conventional, the principles behind it are relatable: self-sufficiency, resourcefulness, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.
